Action
Create a map of stakeholders based on your meetings, noting who they are and linking their impact on your business with their priorities. Identify where both their rational and emotional motives link to your business outcomes. Look for ways to overcome areas where your respective interests create obstacles for each other. Try to replace these with opportunities to generate mutually beneficial outcomes.
Risks/Opportunities/Surprises
Knowing what your stakeholders are like and being friendly is not enough. Friendliness does not equal cooperation and trust. You must work on these relationships so they contribute achieving outcomes.
Your goal is to emotionally engage your customers, which is the basis of customer loyalty. This will usually be more than the technical quality of your work. Find out about their non-work interests, their values, their goals and legacies and what they like and dislike about your organisation and its competitors. More constructive relationships will emerge if you can engage and respect the whole person.